How to Get Me by Yani
Yani is 19, very funny, very Dominican, and an all around great girl.
1. When a guy is trying to talk to you, what are some things he does that let you know you’re not going to give him your number?
Well basically if he’s too into himself, he won’t get my number. Also if I notice a lot of drama, or if our conversation is boring or if he tries to push up too hard. I really hate it when a guy says, “Yo shorty let me holler,” or “Psst.”
2. What does it take for you to give a guy your phone number?
He needs to be a down to earth, sweet kind of guy. He needs to be honest right from the go as to what he wants, especially if he mentions dinner or the movies.
3. Once he gets your number, when is it too early for him to call you?
The same day or even the next.
4. Once he gets your number, when is it too late for him to call you?
A week later I would’ve already forgotten about him.
5. Describe what an acceptable first date is for you.
Dinner and the movies are fine. Dinner must consist of him opening the door for me and doing the nice polite things. At dinner we get to know each other, but not his whole life story, just the basics.
6. Describe what an unacceptable first date is for you.
Having to put up with a guy that dwells on his ex, or is too into himself. I’ll get pissed off if he’s constantly answering his cell. I’m turned off when he brags about how much money he “has.”
7. What will get him a second date with you?
Paying for dinner, just joking. I like honesty. If he’s honest with me, he may get a second date. It doesn’t matter what he’s talking about. I don’t care if he says he wants sex, he’s not going to get it but at least he was honest with me.
8. Will the answer to number 7 earn him a good night kiss that night?
Maybe, if he has nice teeth.
9. Will the answer to number 7 get you to invite him inside that night?
Oh no.
10. What is the best advice you can give to guys trying to talk to females?
Guys keep real. Women hate to be lied to. Be yourself and definitely don’t be shy. Women like guys that go for what they want.